Let's be upfront and just agree that seduction is not an easy thing to do. If it was easy, most guys wouldn't be struggling with women, and you probably wouldn't be reading this article. Most guys are struggling with women and you ARE reading this article. Mistakes are what usually make things end up being more difficult than they have to be when you are trying to seduce a woman and there are literally LOTS of mistakes that you can make, but I want you to take a look at 3 that might cost you big time if you are trying to increase your success with the opposite sex.
Let's dive in:
1. Most guys make the mistake of thinking that it is possible to be successful 100 percent of the time.
You can't. Just remove that from your thinking right now and I'll bet that things don't seem quite so heavy right now. The reality is that seduction is about understanding human behavior, particularly female behavior and human behavior is NOT a hard science. There are no 1 plus 1 always equals two kind of equations. There are TENDENCIES. You are living in a world of tendencies when you deal with people. Not absolutes.
2. Most guys also make the mistake of listening to guys who DON'T get laid.
Guys who don't get laid come up with a thousand and one rationalizations that are not really real to explain why it doesn't happen for them. These are not the kind of guys that you want to listen to. You also don't want to end up making the mistake of thinking that getting numbers is a big deal and guys who don't get laid think that getting phone numbers is still a big deal. That doesn't get you laid. That's just the beginning.
Let's dive in:
1. Most guys make the mistake of thinking that it is possible to be successful 100 percent of the time.
You can't. Just remove that from your thinking right now and I'll bet that things don't seem quite so heavy right now. The reality is that seduction is about understanding human behavior, particularly female behavior and human behavior is NOT a hard science. There are no 1 plus 1 always equals two kind of equations. There are TENDENCIES. You are living in a world of tendencies when you deal with people. Not absolutes.
2. Most guys also make the mistake of listening to guys who DON'T get laid.
Guys who don't get laid come up with a thousand and one rationalizations that are not really real to explain why it doesn't happen for them. These are not the kind of guys that you want to listen to. You also don't want to end up making the mistake of thinking that getting numbers is a big deal and guys who don't get laid think that getting phone numbers is still a big deal. That doesn't get you laid. That's just the beginning.
3. Finally, you don't want to make the mistake of not understanding the woman you are with.
If you are with a woman in a club, a bar, on a date, etc - and you don't take the time to understand her, you are making things harder than they have to be. One of the best seduction skills is to actually LISTEN to a woman and if you do - you are automatically going to be in rapport with her. If you do that and you are able to respond, you are pretty much going to be escalate automatically with her as well. Life gets so much easier when you take the time to actually understand the woman you are with.
It's EASY to seduce a woman when you can listen and go into rapport with her quickly. Go to: Seduction Techniques for Men to find out MORE...
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