Preserving Peace in the Home

You know that as you age, two things could happen. You either become more tolerant of others or less tolerant. You either accept the differences and foibles of those close to you or you become more impatient and judgmental. Obviously, if you want to preserve peace in the home, you must be more mindful of the things you are doing, thinking or saying because harmony feels better than turmoil and duress.

Here are some suggestions you can follow for a more peaceful home.

1. Change your viewpoint from judgmental thinking to respect and tolerance. Everyone is entitled to be an individual and live their lives as they want, even if it doesn't go with your philosophy or behavioral patterns.

2. Inhibit sarcasm and behaviors designed to threaten, lash out or intentionally hurt others. Support behaviors that show understanding, empathy, caring, and the ability to compromise. Also, set clear behavioral boundaries so others know what they can and cannot do regarding your emotional and physical space.

3. Remember to check yourself. When you talk, are you saying things that "build" rather than break down communication? Are your comments put downs, insults or demeaning?You can build good communication by asking open ended questions and by repeating what you hear for clarity.

4. Notice if you frequently make demands of others, such as demanding your family members appreciate you, be loving towards you or be accepting of you. Rather, change your demand to desire. In other words, what you desire from family members is that they appreciate you, love you and accept you. It's inevitably frustrating and disappointing if you have the unrealistic expectation that life is supposed to give you everything you ask for - but you can certainly make your wishes known.

Sexual Seduction - 3 Mistakes That Cost You BIG Time

Let's be upfront and just agree that seduction is not an easy thing to do. If it was easy, most guys wouldn't be struggling with women, and you probably wouldn't be reading this article. Most guys are struggling with women and you ARE reading this article. Mistakes are what usually make things end up being more difficult than they have to be when you are trying to seduce a woman and there are literally LOTS of mistakes that you can make, but I want you to take a look at 3 that might cost you big time if you are trying to increase your success with the opposite sex.

Let's dive in:

1. Most guys make the mistake of thinking that it is possible to be successful 100 percent of the time.

You can't. Just remove that from your thinking right now and I'll bet that things don't seem quite so heavy right now. The reality is that seduction is about understanding human behavior, particularly female behavior and human behavior is NOT a hard science. There are no 1 plus 1 always equals two kind of equations. There are TENDENCIES. You are living in a world of tendencies when you deal with people. Not absolutes.

2. Most guys also make the mistake of listening to guys who DON'T get laid.

Guys who don't get laid come up with a thousand and one rationalizations that are not really real to explain why it doesn't happen for them. These are not the kind of guys that you want to listen to. You also don't want to end up making the mistake of thinking that getting numbers is a big deal and guys who don't get laid think that getting phone numbers is still a big deal. That doesn't get you laid. That's just the beginning.